so im one of the "cool" girls at school, but i feel disconnected with everyone,like i have my group of friends,but its like i dont fit with them anymore. i feel like i outgrew their friendship but i dont know where esle to go. and i just feel so unhappy. please help.
I think you should take a step back from the group of friends you hang out with now and see why you feel like you don’t fit. if you can figure out why you’re different from them it will help you find the kind of friends you really want and need in your life. don’t be afraid to meet new people, be they someone you feel you’d get along with anyway, or someone you never thought you could be friends with. just find friends who make you feel that sense of belonging. once you know why you’re different from them it won’t take long for you to figure out what kind of people you want around you so you can be happy again :) good luck!
what should i do if a guy is on & off, like he will be complety in love with me one day & then he will ignore me talk to other girls the other. im so confused and its taring me apart, i dont know what to do.
I don’t think a guy like that is worth your time. If he truly is interested in you, he wouldn’t be messing around with other girls. He seems like a bit of a player, to be honest with you. Maybe talk to him about it before making a decision on how to act so you can make a judgement on whether or not you can sort out the situation. If not, it might be best to just walk away.. Good luck, beautiful. I hope everything works out for you xoxo
Let me ask you two a question this time. How are your lies going? Are you taking your own advice? Are things as you project them to be?
…i’m going to assume you mean lives, mr anon o.o
well I can’t speak for Ness of course but i’m sure if her answer differs from mine she’ll edit it and add her own tid bits; Ness I don’t mind if you do.
personally my life is like anyone else’s. It’s full of ups and downs, good moments and horrible moments. I try to take the same advice that I give to all of you when I’m in the same situations. sometimes it works the way I predicted and sometimes it doesn’t; but that’s just life isn’t it?
things are never exactly as we project them really. everything in life is too unpredictable, especially mine. all we can do is try our best to make it better and hope that it works. if it doesn’t, we just try something else.
thank you for asking though :) it means a lot <3
Hi! I just wanted to tell you how amazing you guys, and this blog are <3 I am a 15 year old girl, and I was hoping that you might help me with something. I am one of those persons that never, NEVER, is invited to a party. I have tons and tons of friends, but they just seem to forget me sometimes (even if they don't). My self-confidence is just getting lower and lower, and I was wondering if you had some tips for me to get included again Thank you so much, this blog gives me so much hope <3
thank you so much :) sorry it’s taken some time to reply i’ve been trying to figure out the best advice to give you haha <3
well there’s a few things you can do. if you’re saying you have tons of friends but they don’t invite you maybe you need to think about whether or not they’re your real friends, and if not you need to figure out who your real friends are. if you’re sure they all are your real friends, maybe they don’t realise you’d enjoy the things they organise together. maybe try organising something yourself; a trip to the movies, or go shopping with them, something like that. and see how it goes. and just keep being yourself when you’re with them all :) that’s basically the best thing you can do.
<3 good luck!
